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May
08
2018

Bev and What’s Next

Bev

“Rather than planting the seeds, see what regenerates.” ~Chris Dierkes

Hello everyone,

As many of you know, I have been on a sabbatical. I love the work I do and the people who are courageous enough to step up to the plate and ask for help. Over the past year, I have stepped back and given myself space to just hang out. I have worked since I was 21, so it has been an interesting year for me!! Actually, I never really felt I was ‘working’… it always felt more like I was sharing and growing and bringing everyone with me as I grew.

Self-growth is truly an experiential experience. It takes awareness, commitment, devotion and accountability. It can be hard work, but it’s oh so rewarding!!!!!!! I have enjoyed every single step.

I can feel it is time for me to move into another part of me. The one that hasn’t really had the opportunity to play in different ways. I know there are parts of me that haven’t had full expression. My adulthood, like yours, has been mapped out with responsibilities. I am now in a place where responsibilities are no longer the same. That means that I can give myself the opportunity to listen to my impulses, and play in other ways that haven’t been available.

So yes, I am changing direction. The word is retirement. I know my first step out will be to continue to travel, and probably Northern India is the next place I will explore. How exciting is this?

Knowing me, I will continue to share in some way. I may send you newsletters as I experience some inspiration. There are many ways of sharing, and I look forward to see what comes up for me.

Is it okay to email me? Yes! I would love to hear from you, and have an update. I would love to respond.

My wish for you all is to love yourself enough to keep growing, and know that growth comes not from blaming others or your environment, but from what is going on inside of you. Keep fighting for yourself… the true playing field is inside you, not outside.

We all have the capacity to learn. Our power and our growth comes from our learning. As you go through life, be open to learning the pieces that are important for you. Take them on, and practice integrating them. They will become part of you. All of us have that capacity.

So, I would like to say to you all, “Go for it!”. It has truly been an honour working with you.

Thank you.

All my love,
Bev

Tags: Bev Pugh, learning, love, power, retirement, reward, self-growth
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Jan
09
2017

2017 – My New Years Gift to YOU

bear humour

One Bear to another Bear: “His name is Bradshaw. He says he understands I came from a singe parent den with inadequate role models. He senses that my dysfunctional behaviour is shame based and codependent and he urges me to let my inner cub heal… I say we eat him.”
~ A cartoon I enjoyed while working in Japan. I love learning through laughter!!

Happy New Year everyone! I like the opportunity to start a New Year because it gives me the chance to do a personal review and reassess my accountability to myself. It’s like someone has blown a whistle and said “time out”, so I take some time to reflect.

I’d like to share one of my all time favourite quotes. I have carried this around with me for many years. Here it is:

“To know and not to do…is not yet to know.” ~ A Zen Saying

The quote reminds me that I already ‘know’ (on some level) and it challenges me to move into more integrity with myself. It is a humbling statement of wisdom.

This quote is a great navigational tool. Professionally and personally I have been described as having a good deal of wisdom, but I can do really dumb things. We all can. We forget what we know. The number of times in counselling sessions when I have heard people say “I know. I know.”, but their behaviour is different than what they know. I include myself in this. Our habits of reacting are strong. To erase them or weaken them, we have to be strong in our commitment to ourselves.

What I really love about this quote is it brings us to the truth of what is going on. We can all talk a good line, but are we living it? For me this quote asks me to review what I know is ‘right’ for me, and that takes me to a place of self inquiry. By self inquiry I mean I ask myself, “Bev, how are you really doing?”

As I respond to this self inquiry, I first let go of any blame I am carrying toward other people. All finger pointing is not where truth lies. I also step away from blaming circumstances or situations for any distress I feel. These are all not core issues. As you have heard me say in newsletters before, I am passionate about true self growth, not band aid approaches.

Band aids keep us in the same cycles, but give us temporary relief.

The core to self growth is to stay focused on yourself; to move into the area of self “response…ability”. It starts and ends with us – our thinking, our perceptions, our values, our clarity, and our willingness to take ourselves on.

2017 is about our commitment to ourselves. Remember: “To know and not to do… is not yet to know.”

What do you want to dig deeper and uproot this year?

Happy New Year everyone!

Tags: Beverley Pugh, blame, challenge, change, commitment, habit, inspiration, integrity, self-growth, truth, wisdom
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Beverley Pugh

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Beverley Pugh has international experience in Individual, Marital and Family Therapist services. Areas of practice include counselling in: individual, couples, family, anxiety, addictions, grief, depression, pain management, multicultural, workplace and others.

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Beverley Pugh has international experience in Individual, Marital and Family Therapist services. Areas of practice include counselling in: individual, couples, family, anxiety, addictions, grief, depression, pain management, multicultural, workplace and others.

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