I have had breast cancer 4 times. Each time I found a lump, and each time it was removed. I had chemo and radiation on the first 3 times, but not the last. There is a significant history of cancer in my family.
It was recommended to have one or both my breasts removed. I decided no. It was a very personal decision. My doctor didn’t agree. It was a choice I made.
I’m in my 70’s now and still working part-time. I have an active social and recreational life. From my experience, this is what I did to move through it all:
- The first time, I think we are all devastated and worried that we might die. I found that it was important to stay focused on how I was going to get through this. I searched for ways to feel good.
- Every morning I wake up and I “stretch and search“. I am committed to checking my own breasts. Early detection is so important.
- Be an advocate. The system can be slow and heavy. Ask about cancellation lists, earlier appointments, find ways of raising your profile.
- I am a very private person. The way I handled it was to not tell people. I’ve kept everything very simple, and didn’t want to deal with people’s reactions.
- I did some service work when I got better. It was my way of saying thank you. I am alive, and I am grateful. I called it “payback” time. I chose to give some talks to interested groups. There are many things you can do – like visiting kids in hospitals, etc.
I hope this is helpful.
“Boobie” (Pardon my humour.)
